I’ve decided to retire from the Kaylor shipping fandom.
This post is about me, and only me trying to put an end to something I’m not ok with anymore. It’s a personal decision that do not involve others. I do not judge others here but solely me.
I must recognize that when I entered the ship, I was drawn on by PR analysis. This is a subject I’m interesting in. This is a subject I have studied and read a lot about (For the record, I’m into politics, that’s why).
This is a personnal explanation for why I started entering the speculation train.
Having said this, I have to admit that I lost myself during the trip. I’ve played a part in a place, my blog, where it was rightful to insult or blame people for the way they live their life, through the point of view of an outsider that actually don’t know nothing.
I realize it was shameful, it was wrong and there were no point to do this. Anger can lead you on for a little while, but it shouldn’t drive you eternally.
Then, I started asking myself: Who I’m to judge? Who I’m to pretend that what I say is the truth? Who I’m to pretend to know the life of people I never spend time with? Who I’m to speculate about the sexuality of celebrities, when sexuality is something private that only the persons very close to someone might be able to really understand?
Well, I’m no one. And I should stop. So, I’ve decided to stop and to admit my mistakes. My personal own mistakes.
If Taylor is gay and hiding, then, I will let it be. If it’s a different option, I will let it be. Same for Karlie and all the people involved with them.
I also believe our analysis and supposed objectivity is as flawed as the Tayvins. I will talk about it, fairly and without no call out to the one I’m close to, if they want to.
This is me coming to term with what I wrote on my blog. The rest? I don’t care anymore. I will let the others do what they think it’s right. This is their blogs. I stop here. Everyone is free to write and everyone live with their own conscious. I’m not the right person to judge anyone else.
I’ve decided to stop the shameful words. By this logic, I will no give the upper hand to anyone ships, Kaylors or Tayvins, or to any other ships involving real life people.
I don’t think one is right and one is wrong. I don’t think flipping sides is making you a honest or decent person. I don’t think coming to sense by using shameful words to thoses that were close to you is also any better. If you want to repent from your own actions, then, do it in silence, because what you’ve done don’t make you a better person, especially if it’s to repeat the past actions: call out and insult. (You will recognize yourself)
This is the end. Goodbye.
-Chip-